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Sunday, November 2, 2014

Why We Shout In Anger

A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled'n asked.

'Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said,'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'

'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.'asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'

The saint continued,'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper'n they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other'n that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

He looked at his disciples and said.

'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return

Saturday, August 23, 2014

சந்தனம் / குங்குமம் இடுவதின் உண்மை/பயன்கள்

சந்தனம் / குங்குமம் இடுவதின் உண்மை/பயன்கள்:-

சந்தனம் இரு புருவங்களுக்கும் இடையில் இடுகின்ற போது, மூளையின் பின்பகுதியில் ஞாபகங்கள் பதிவுசெய்து வைத்திருக்கும் Hippocampus என்னும் இடத்திற்கு ஞாபகங்களை சிறப்பான முறையில் அனுப்புவதற்கு இந்த frontal cortex சிறப்பான முறையில் தொழிற்படும். உடலுக்குக் குளிர்ச்சியூட்டும் சந்தனத்தை நெற்றியிலும் உடலின் பல பாகங்களிலும் இந்து சமயத்தவர் அணிந்திருக்கும் காட்சி நகைச்சுவையாகப் பார்வைக்குத் தோன்றினாலும் அற்புதமான காரணமும் அதில் உண்டு!

நெற்றியின் இரு புருவங்களுக்கும் இடையிலுள்ள நெற்றிப் பொட்டிலே பட்டும் படாமலும் சுண்டுவிரலை நேராகப்பிடித்தால் மனதில் ஒருவகை உணர்வு தோன்றும். அந்த உணர்வை அப்படியே வைத்துத் தியானம் செய்தால் மனஒருமைப்பாடு தோன்றும், சிந்தனை தெளிவுபெறும், எதையும் தெளிவாகப் புரிந்து கொள்ளும் நிலை தோன்றும். அந்த நெற்றிப் பொட்டு குளிர்ச்சியுடன் இருக்க சந்தனம் சரியான மருந்து.

குங்குமம் :-

மஞ்சள், படிகாரம், சுண்ணாம்பு இவற்றைக் கலந்து குங்குமம் தயார் செய்யப்படுகிறது. இவை மூன்றுமே கிருமிநாசினிப் பொருட்கள் ஆகும். மனித உடலில் தெய்வ சக்தி வாய்ந்தது நெற்றிக்கண் அதாவது, இரண்டு புருவங்களுக்கு நடுவிலுள்ள பகுதியில் குங்குமத்தை வைத்தால் அமைதி கிடைக்கும்.ஹிப்னாட்டிஸம் உட்பட எந்தச் சக்தியையும் முறியடிக்கும் சக்தி குங்குமத்துக்கு உண்டு , நம் கபாலத்தில் உள்ள சிந்தனை நரம்புகளின் முடிச்சு இரு புருவங்களுக்கு இடையில் உள்ளது. மனிதன் அதிகமாக சிந்திக்கும் போது சிந்தனை நரம்புகள் சூடேறி நெற்றி வலி தலைபாரம், தலைச்சுற்றல் ஏற்படும். மன உளைச்சல் ஏற்பட்டுத் தன் நிலை மறக்க வேண்டிய சூழ்நிலை உருவாகி பல விரும்பத் தாகத விளைவுகள் ஏற்படும். ஆகவே அந்த நரம்பு மண்டலம் குளிர்ச்சியாக இருக்க வேண்டும்.

சந்தனம், திருநீறு, குங்குமம் இவைகளுக்குக் குளிர்ச்சியூட்டும் தன்மை உண்டு. எனவே அந்த நரம்பு மண்டலம் குளிர்ச்சியாக இருக்க வேண்டும் என்பதற்காகச் சந்தனம் பூசி, சந்தனம் காயாமல் இருக்க குங்குமம் இடுகிறோம்.இவற்றைத் தரித்தால் புத்துணர்வும், புதுத் தெளிவும், புதிய சிந்தனைகளும், உற்சாகமும் தோன்றும். உணர்ச்சியற்ற நரம்புகள் தூண்டப்படுகின்றன. மனிதனின் உடற்கூறுக்கு உகந்த முறைகளைத்தான் நாம் இறைவழிபாடுகள் மூலம் அடைகிறோம்.

Friday, March 21, 2014

Finding Happiness

Once a group of 50 people was attending a seminar.

Suddenly the speaker stopped and started giving each person a balloon. Each one was asked to write his/her name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were collected and put in another room.

Now these delegates were let in that room and asked to find the balloon which had their name written, within 5 minutes.

Everyone was frantically searching for their name, pushing, colliding with each other, and there was utter chaos.

At the end of 5 minutes, no one could find their own balloon.

Now each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the person whose name was written on it. Within minutes everyone had their own balloon.

The speaker began: This is exactly happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is. Our happiness lies in the happiness of other people. Give them their happiness, you will get your own happiness.

And this is the purpose of human life.

A Good Leader

Success People Vs. Unsuccessful People

Saturday, February 8, 2014

Thursday, February 6, 2014

The Three Races

In old times, fable retells the story of the young athletic boy hungry for success, for whom winning was everything and success was measured by such a result.

One day, the boy was preparing himself for a running competition in his small native village, himself and two other young boys to compete. A large crowd had congregated to witness the sporting spectacle and a wise old man, upon hearing of the little boy, had travelled far to bear witness also.

The race commenced, looking like a level heat at the finishing line, but sure enough the boy dug deep and called on his determination, strength and power… he took the winning line and was first. The crowd was ecstatic and cheered and waved at the boy. The wise man remained still and calm, expressing no sentiment. The little boy, however, felt proud and important.

A second race was called, and two new young, fit, challengers came forward, to run with the little boy. The race was started and sure enough the little boy came through and finished first once again. The crowd was ecstatic again and cheered and waved at the boy. The wise man remained still and calm, again expressing no sentiment. The little boy, however, felt proud and important.

“Another race, another race!” – pleaded the little boy.

The wise old man stepped forward and presented the little boy with two new challengers, an elderly frail lady and a blind man. “What is this?” – quizzed the little boy. “This is no race.” – he exclaimed.

Race!” – said the wise man. The race was started and the boy was the only finisher, the other two challengers left standing at the starting line. The little boy was ecstatic, he raised his arms in delight. The crowd, however, was silent showing no sentiment toward the little boy.

What has happened? Why don’t the people join in my success?” – he asked the wise old man.

Race again”, replied the wise man, “this time, finish together, all three of you, finish together.” – continued the wise man.

The little boy thought a little, stood in the middle of the blind man and the frail old lady, and then took the two challengers by the hand. The race began and the little boy walked slowly, ever so slowly, to the finishing line and crossed it. The crowd were ecstatic and cheered and waved at the boy. The wise man smiled, gently nodding his head. The little boy felt proud and important.

Old man, I don’t understand! Who are the crowd cheering for? Which one of us three?” – asked the little boy.

The wise old man looked into the little boy’s eyes, placing his hands on the boy’s shoulders, and replied softly,

Little boy, for this race you have won much more than in any race you have ever ran before, and for this race the crowd cheer not for any winner!

Thursday, January 2, 2014

How to Design a New Year's Resolution that Last's


There actually is no need for a New Years Resolution.

If someone really wants to change themselves, it shouldn't take the beginning of a new year as motivation to do so.

It should be done willingly. This is just one of the many lies that people tell themselves, in order to give themselves the illusion of change. 

There was a Famous Quote -
We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves.
The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day

So Our Resolution with a Willingness to start write about ourself in that Book by 
Wishing you a Very Happy New Year.